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[mmmm8]

How soon or long before people/countries start boycotting the USA because of the morons in DC? The World Cup 2026 and The Olympics 2028 are in the US.

There is a FIFA CLUB Word Cup in the US this summer (a recent competition that brings top global football clubs together). TIckets are not sold out, I saw the official ticket prices for matches in LA were lowered to about $30 because there are so few takers for teams from Latin America. Mexico is so close and no one from there wants to travel up even to see Mexican clubs compete on a world stage (and Mexican nationals and Mexican Americans living in Cali might be scared to attend as well).

[Owendonovan]

Just wrapped my 10th year at this school, off until September!

[dryrunguy]

Just wrapped my 10th year at this school, off until September!

Couldn't resist.

[ti-amie]

Today was an adventure in urban living for me.

So last night I'm watching this really good Chinese drama and the red flag male lead was about to try once again to kill the female lead and all the lights went out. Flipped the circuit breakers and nada. No one on the night shift had a clue. And it was only my building. And not the whole building.
So spending a night and a day feeling as if someone was hitting me in the face with a wet mop - I don't handle heat and humidity well - 16 hours later power was restored by some jury rigged method I hope holds until the permanent fix is in place.

Ya gotta stay on your toes when living in the city. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

[ponchi101]

Uhm... in the country, you could have gone out and watch the sky
Best of luck with the heat.

[ti-amie]

Uhm... in the country, you could have gone out and watch the sky
Best of luck with the heat.

I understand and I've done that when I used to visit Haiti on a regular basis. As a born and bred NY'er seeing the night sky in all it's glory was simply amazing and I'll never forget that.

But I like being in the city.

[skatingfan]

Today was an adventure in urban living for me.

So last night I'm watching this really good Chinese drama and the red flag male lead was about to try once again to kill the female lead and all the lights went out. Flipped the circuit breakers and nada. No one on the night shift had a clue. And it was only my building. And not the whole building.
So spending a night and a day feeling as if someone was hitting me in the face with a wet mop - I don't handle heat and humidity well - 16 hours later power was restored by some jury rigged method I hope holds until the permanent fix is in place.

Ya gotta stay on your toes when living in the city. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

My power was also out last night - only for a couple of hours - hydro pole fire. The building 30 feet away had power, but I was sitting in the dark waiting for the lights to come back.

[ti-amie]

Today was an adventure in urban living for me.

So last night I'm watching this really good Chinese drama and the red flag male lead was about to try once again to kill the female lead and all the lights went out. Flipped the circuit breakers and nada. No one on the night shift had a clue. And it was only my building. And not the whole building.
So spending a night and a day feeling as if someone was hitting me in the face with a wet mop - I don't handle heat and humidity well - 16 hours later power was restored by some jury rigged method I hope holds until the permanent fix is in place.

Ya gotta stay on your toes when living in the city. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

My power was also out last night - only for a couple of hours - hydro pole fire. The building 30 feet away had power, but I was sitting in the dark waiting for the lights to come back.

Weird

[ti-amie]

I should mention that the Chinese drama I'm watching is a satire of Chinese drama's and is absolutely hilarious.

[mmmm8]

I should mention that the Chinese drama I'm watching is a satire of Chinese drama's and is absolutely hilarious.

What is the name of it?

[ashkor87]

How soon or long before people/countries start boycotting the USA because of the morons in DC? The World Cup 2026 and The Olympics 2028 are in the US.

There is a FIFA CLUB Word Cup in the US this summer (a recent competition that brings top global football clubs together). TIckets are not sold out, I saw the official ticket prices for matches in LA were lowered to about $30 because there are so few takers for teams from Latin America. Mexico is so close and no one from there wants to travel up even to see Mexican clubs compete on a world stage (and Mexican nationals and Mexican Americans living in Cali might be scared to attend as well).

sad, because the sheer quality of the football would be better even than the World Cup... the WC teams are a motley crew, who never play together - the clubs are finely honed machines..my son says the world champions would have no chance against Real Madrid or even Arsenal..!

[ti-amie]

I should mention that the Chinese drama I'm watching is a satire of Chinese drama's and is absolutely hilarious.

What is the name of it?

A Dream Within A Dream.

The male lead, Liu Yu Ning is one of the biggest male stars right now.

[ti-amie]

[dryrunguy]

I have no opinion about this. I just think it's hilarious. At least until I am on the receiving end of one of these stares.

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Yes, Gen Z Is Staring at You. The Question Is Why.
A generational debate has started over Gen Z’s tendency to respond to various social situations with a long and intentional stare.

By Nicole Stock
July 14, 2025
When Valerie Jefferson, 23, posted a video about the “Gen Z stare” on TikTok, she did not expect it to start a fight. Her video, which documented one interpretation of the meaning of the stare — the blank look of someone in a service job who is handling frustrating requests from a customer — unleashed a torrent of intergenerational debates.

“Millennials finally got something to say about Gen Z and I think they ran with it and Gen Z was not happy,” Ms. Jefferson said of the two generations duking it out in the comments section of her video, which now has more than three million views.

Ms. Jefferson’s video was one of dozens of recent clips racking up millions of views over the last few weeks on the concept of the Gen Z stare, which many social media users have said is the blank stare that members of younger generations give in situations where a verbal response would be more common. There are plenty of examples from retail, dining or other customer-facing jobs, but many social media users say it is a broader phenomenon, too.

In a TikTok video, Riley Despot, 30, described an experience she had taking her daughter to a golf lesson with a young teenager. In the video, Ms. Despot said she greeted the instructor and thanked her for agreeing to teach her daughter how to play golf. In response, she said she was met with a stare and a “yeah.”

“I was just confused after the interaction,” she said. “I did some self-reflection and I was like, ‘Did I do something wrong? Did I not read the social situation right?’”

The stare seems to have supporters and detractors, and even Gen Z-ers themselves can’t seem to decide exactly what it is. (Ms. Jefferson said commenters helped convince her that her initial impression of the stare she documented in her video was wrong.)

Efe Ahworegba, 19, a content creator whose video on the subject has more than 11 million views, said the stare was challenging the way customers often treat people in the food service and retail industries.

“The Gen Z stare is basically us saying the customer is not always right,” Ms. Ahworegba said.

She was inspired to share her story after coming across a post where someone who appeared to be a millennial or Gen Xer described a situation in which they were on the business end of the Gen Z stare.

Ms. Ahworegba thought the scenario had a “sense of entitlement” — hence the stare — and that it was “not because of a person’s lack of ability to communicate.”

“They just didn’t want to communicate with someone who’s not using their own brain cells,” she said.

It’s unclear exactly how and when the phrase was coined, but several social media users said they first came across it on TikTok in the last few weeks. And the cause? That’s also up for debate.

Lanie Beams, 25, who felt qualified to make a TikTok on the topic because she is Gen Z herself, said there was a wide range of causes people were identifying, including vaping, iPad usage and the Covid-19 pandemic.

“Everyone’s blaming it on something else,” Ms. Beams said.

Several social media users also pointed to the idea that the stare had roots in anxiety.

“It almost feels like a resurgence of stranger danger,” said Jordan MacIsaac, a 24-year-old bartender. “Like, people just don’t know how to make small talk or interact with people they don’t know.”

Brooke Adams, a 28-year-old content creator who said she identified as a millennial (but leaned toward Gen Z when it came to technology), said she thought Gen Z-ers who missed parts of their high school experience because of Covid struggled with small talk, saying thank you and “just those little things that I think so many of us that were maybe older Gen Z and maybe more millennial are used to.”

Though it’s possible Covid has played some role in Gen Z’s social behavior, the generation’s significant declines in face-to-face interaction have largely been a result of spending so much more time online, said Jean Twenge, the author of “Generations: The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers and Silents — And What They Mean for America’s Future.”

“Social skills take thousands and thousands of hours to develop and adolescence is a critical period for developing social skills,” Dr. Twenge said. “And Gen Z has spent much less time with their peers in person during that critical stage.”

Ms. Ahworegba had a simpler explanation, saying her Gen Z peers often felt like they did not “owe” anyone conversation.

“I know everybody’s probably tired at their job, but giving a simple greeting can change the interaction” she said, explaining that even saying “hi” could help foster community.

“But if they are talking to you any type of way, I do believe you can give someone the Gen Z stare, if that’s what you feel like,” Ms. Ahworegba added.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/14/styl ... f11dfcd63a

[ponchi101]

Oh. That would be the wrong thing to do in so many places.
Gen Z my butt. Gen Crystal.